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Dr. Charles Lam has since 1971 received training in West Germany (telecom) and university education in U.K. (management) and acquired working experiences in Hong Kong and Canada, in a utility company, Hong Kong Government, a multinational organization and a SME. In his career path, he has acquired qualifications from UK institutions including DBA (1990), MBA (1980) and Chartered Engineer (1978). Since 1986, he has left pure engineering to teaching various subjects of business management in Hong Kong for famous universities of Hong Kong, England and United States. He also has served the society as a member of an advisory committee of the Hong Kong Government for eight years, and as the Hon. Chairman of its Consumer Education Group. Later, he set up his own company to offer services as a consultant, writer and speaker. In his 'Second Half Time', he has been working passionately on integrating Christian values with management knowledge, in the marketplace/workplace ministry, serving hospitals, churches and organizations, as a speaker, consultant, life coach, and the leader of a REST Group based on a life story approach. Charles is currently living with his wife in Canada.

Tuesday, August 08, 2017

從安息、探索可以得到「轉」、「合」 (part2/2)

(2) 可以得到「合」

-沒有行動計劃與追踪, 「生命使命宣言」也只是空言(廢話!)

-不滿於現狀? 不安於穩定? 重整生命. 再看POST模式 

-重新作事業定位、計劃. 為私人生活 (PL), 事業生活(WL) 和社會生活 (SL) 鋪路
-要放下些什麼? 要強化些什麼? 要選擇些什麼?

-要改善角色和時間管理嗎? 要改善人際關係和溝通方法嗎?

-性格弱點要怎樣改? 性格強點要怎樣保持?

-會走「自由人」的路嗎? 要怎樣開始?

-會在教會牆外事奉嗎? 選擇些什麼? 
怎樣開始?

(3)應付從世界來的噪音、差異

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應付世俗人怎樣看你!-- 簡單生活也是幸福!「工作為祭」取代 making a living! ..... 用感恩、喜樂來面對困難!

-不要模仿別人或與別人比較--e.g. 信徒
可以每日在忙碌中做靈修、得安息、得啟示!

從安息、探索可以得到「轉」、「合」 (part 1/2)

(1)可以得到「轉」
-從安息、安靜 -- 空間多, 空氣好, 人少, 是靈修的機會
. 回憶和反思人生經歷、感恩、感觸、 感慨... 重要的是可以得息得力(充電、加油、振興), 甚至醫治; 與神對話, 鞏固思想, 悔改更新, 確認召命! ....安息是一種投資! 

-從新經歷(遊歷) , 闊視 -- 從觀察得靈感 , 從經歷得學習 . 了解世界之大, 人之眇小. ...如果遊歷只是為了吃渴完樂, 真是浪費!...幫助跳出「安全區」從多方面看前瞻. 

-反省 : 從前的轉捩點能否帶來「轉」? 以往為誰辛苦為何忙?....

-「轉」: 心意更新些什麼?-- 人生觀、價值觀、工作觀、聖俗觀、家庭觀... 怎樣看成功、金錢、婚姻、家庭、朋友、知識等. ...從數字、效率「轉」到果子、果效.....「轉」是像換上屬靈新「眼鏡」: 從前是瞎眼, 現在可看見前路!

-強化生命故事思維: "當你回望過去發生的事情( 起),及反思事情發生的因果及當時的感受( 承), 你可以更加了解自己和召命(承), 因而作價值的更新(轉),...."; 而定位、定形象、定標竿、策略等是在「合」階段