(3) 用「 起承轉合」方法寫生命故事
*「起」= R = Recollection of incidents in the past (追溯歷史, 回憶以往的發展和成績); 主要是回憶what, when, where, who
-從前有很多的經歷--是作業、行業、專業的數目? 是事業路的起跌? 是搬屋、移民、旅遊的次數? 是產業、權力的得失? 是學位、証書、資歷的擁有? 是名氣、人氣、掌聲、獎牌的升降? 是朋友、親人的多少? 是情感(男女、親人)、婚姻的去留? 是健康的起跌?…… 在PL, WL 或 SL是否經歷太多或太少? 經歷多的人也可能是迷失, 未必是好學習者。
*「承」= E = Enlightenment through reflection (從反思經歷的感受, 了解客觀情況和因果, 可更加了解自己); 主要回憶/思考why, how
-用積極的態度反思以往在PL, WL, SL好和壞的經歷, 察覺到什麼意義？學習了什麽? 從前是否過份自信? 是否太懶惰? 是否太忙?
-反思和尋求, 可以明白神對我生命的旨意!
*「轉」=S = Shifting the paradigms (範式轉換: 悔改、心意更新、價值改變) (羅 12: 2) ; 從自己看轉到神怎樣看: 成功、事業、資產、回報、健康、婚姻等,..豐盛生命
-需要改善什麼？需要給你以前忽略了的家庭多些時間嗎? 要花少些時間在自己的興趣和休閒嗎? 要給你的鄰舍和社會多一些？從前迷失在拼命賺錢, 現在要多些了解召命和人生使命?.....
* 「合」= T = Tracking actions planned and taken (行動計劃、實踐與追踪)
-知道怎樣在PL, WL, SL平衡地走人生路; 不要身不由己!
-定位--在認定召命和人生使命之後, 做刺蝟, 不做狐狸 !
-走前面人生路要目標導向--要定短、中、長目標在 PL, WL, PL
-走前面人生路要重整 (包括加和減)在PL, WL, SL 的角色
-管理好時間--在 PL, WL, SL, 那裏要放多、放少些! 要對付一些「大敵人」: 電視、上網、打機、美容、行街、parties、「飲茶」、閒談…!
About Me
- Dr Charles Lam (林錦華博士)
- Ottawa, Canada
- Dr. Charles Lam has since 1971 received training in West Germany (telecom) and university education in U.K. (management) and acquired working experiences in Hong Kong and Canada, in a utility company, Hong Kong Government, a multinational organization and a SME. In his career path, he has acquired qualifications from UK institutions including DBA (1990), MBA (1980) and Chartered Engineer (1978). Since 1986, he has left pure engineering to teaching various subjects of business management in Hong Kong for famous universities of Hong Kong, England and United States. He also has served the society as a member of an advisory committee of the Hong Kong Government for eight years, and as the Hon. Chairman of its Consumer Education Group. Later, he set up his own company to offer services as a consultant, writer and speaker. In his 'Second Half Time', he has been working passionately on integrating Christian values with management knowledge, in the marketplace/workplace ministry, serving hospitals, churches and organizations, as a speaker, consultant, life coach, and the leader of a REST Group based on a life story approach. Charles is currently living with his wife in Canada.
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