1) 不同人有不同的人生路經歷:
-作業、行業、專業的數目
-事業路的起跌
-搬屋、移民、回流、旅遊
-產業的得失
-權力的得失
-學位、証書、資歷、等
-名氣、人氣、掌聲、獎牌等的升降
-朋友、親人的多少、得失
-情感(男女、親人)、婚姻的得失
-健康的起跌
-成敗、得失、升跌、離合是發生在不同的人生路徑上(PL 、WL 、SL)
-這些只是回憶what, when, where, who (「起」)
2) 回憶到不愉快的經歷感覺傷痛、失敗感不能抹走! 人生路經歷多可以是拖累和壓力!
-但是, 不要長期埋藏 一些苦楚 、恐懼 、矛盾、不甘心! 要接受有一些路是不能走回頭的!
-也不要盲目地擦去不好的回憶，或當它們是垃圾 (這可能是心理問題)
-最好是能面對自己的過去，不要把不好的成為前路的障礙. 克服了才得到真正的解脫 (腓 3:13-14) (希 12: 1)
-用積極的態度來回顧好的和壞的經歷, 可以幫助自己和別人--行前路更有信心、成功感和滿足感, 更有抗逆能力!
About Me
- Dr Charles Lam (林錦華博士)
- Ottawa, Canada
- Dr. Charles Lam has since 1971 received training in West Germany (telecom) and university education in U.K. (management) and acquired working experiences in Hong Kong and Canada, in a utility company, Hong Kong Government, a multinational organization and a SME. In his career path, he has acquired qualifications from UK institutions including DBA (1990), MBA (1980) and Chartered Engineer (1978). Since 1986, he has left pure engineering to teaching various subjects of business management in Hong Kong for famous universities of Hong Kong, England and United States. He also has served the society as a member of an advisory committee of the Hong Kong Government for eight years, and as the Hon. Chairman of its Consumer Education Group. Later, he set up his own company to offer services as a consultant, writer and speaker. In his 'Second Half Time', he has been working passionately on integrating Christian values with management knowledge, in the marketplace/workplace ministry, serving hospitals, churches and organizations, as a speaker, consultant, life coach, and the leader of a REST Group based on a life story approach. Charles is currently living with his wife in Canada.
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