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Dr. Charles Lam has since 1971 received training in West Germany (telecom) and university education in U.K. (management) and acquired working experiences in Hong Kong and Canada, in a utility company, Hong Kong Government, a multinational organization and a SME. In his career path, he has acquired qualifications from UK institutions including DBA (1990), MBA (1980) and Chartered Engineer (1978). Since 1986, he has left pure engineering to teaching various subjects of business management in Hong Kong for famous universities of Hong Kong, England and United States. He also has served the society as a member of an advisory committee of the Hong Kong Government for eight years, and as the Hon. Chairman of its Consumer Education Group. Later, he set up his own company to offer services as a consultant, writer and speaker. In his 'Second Half Time', he has been working passionately on integrating Christian values with management knowledge, in the marketplace/workplace ministry, serving hospitals, churches and organizations, as a speaker, consultant, life coach, and the leader of a REST Group based on a life story approach. Charles is currently living with his wife in Canada.

Monday, May 12, 2014

人生路起 、承、轉、合, 探索那裡弱、怎樣強? (第二部分)

(2) 「承」= E = Enlightenment through reflection (從反思經歷得新啟發, 更加了解自己)

>那裡弱?
-感受, 及表達感受 (男性比較弱?)
-當反思一些經歷時, 太強烈地表達情緒 (切望回到那時侯? 仍想完成某些事? )
>怎樣強?
-努力平衡理性與感性, 為更加了解自己
-多些為人生經歷、神的保守牽引感恩
-接受有一些路不能走回頭
-不要忽略其他人生路的經歷

>那裡弱?
-想忘記一些經歷 (心裡還埋藏了矛盾、不甘心?)
-不想思想: 人(或神)怎樣看我的過去?
-與別人比較時浮現負面感受
>怎樣強?
-克服心理障礙; 接受(神的) 醫治
-接受經歷是神塑造我的生命
-肯定我的生命是獨特

>那裡弱?
-分析過往事情發生的因果 , 重覆出現的「模式」, 與自己(性格、品格、強弱項、恩賜、熱忱等) 的關係
>怎樣強?
-強化分析能力; 與導師、同行者、守望者分享, 接受意見; 多思想、讀經, 為更加了解自己
-接受「創造神學」, 努力尋求 神的旨意、召命
(待續)

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